I absolutely LOVED this piece. First, your title actually grabbed me from an email, and dragged my focus from a wandering state to a curious and attentive one. Your use of oxymoron in the title is poetic and perfect.

Then you revealed some actual secrets that will help people like me snap out of it and focus. I had No idea that it was possible to build protection from temptations through habits. But now that you opened up the possibility, it does make sense.

💡💡💡 I really appreciate this excellent piece. Thanks Reed Rawlings.


I am a Mom. I was once a widow. I am a guitar player. I am a poet. I love humans. I am a ferocious protector of small children, elderly people and animals.